The Power of Porn

We never know what the future will hold, this is both the beauty and sorrow of life. 

If we knew what lay ahead, would we still keep going on in our chosen direction? 

Nothing can replace what only time and experience can give us: wisdom and perspective and faith. 

We have to trust in ourselves, we have to trust in life. 

Otherwise, what do we have?

I bumbled into this New Year with a vision awoke so strongly in my heart that I never in a million years thought would be my chosen path. 

But I cannot get away from this creative juju that has latched itself onto my soul. 

And inevitably, so it will be. 

Listen to this week's video to find out what the Pussy Revolution is asking of me next. 

And by proximity, of you too. 

Watch "The Power of Porn" Now:

All we can do is say YES. And surrender to the magic at bay. 

The acorn doesn't have to figure out how to be an oak tree, it just has to let life happen through it. Surrender is key to experiences soul shaking orgasms, and it is the secret to living an extraordinary life too. 

I wish for you a beautiful year ahead filled with eroticism, arm strokes and pure unadulterated romance, in the most literal sense of the word. 

Listen to my new video, The Power of Porn Now and let your mind join mine in being blasted open to new dimensions and possibilities for humanity and our divine joyful diamonic sexualities. 

My Self Pleasure School opens for 2019 enrolment soon so stay tuned to hear more about how you can make 2019 your sexiest most sensual, pleasure filled year yet. ;) 

All for one and one for all,

Keeley Olivia O

A Guided Practice for Feeling Like A Wild Sex Diva ๐ŸฆŠ๐ŸŒฒ

In today's video I have created for you a guided practice that will help you to overcome any insecurity, shyness or low self-esteem when it comes to flirting your sexy way through life. 

You're probably super hot and don't even know it!

Truth is, I believe that everyone is when they are being their full radiant unique self.

There is nothing more magnetic or fun to be around than someone who is really comfortable and happy in who they are.

Self Esteem is SEXY AF. 

I used to feel awkward or embarrassed when connecting deeply with other humans, especially one's I felt attracted to.

In fact, for many years I only experienced sexual intimacy when drunk cos doing it sober felt too intense!

And not in a good way.

Even still now it will sometimes creep up and surprise me. I can do this thing where I just smile and cut off the sensations from my Pussy or body so as to not feel the powerful energy flowing through me. 

I disconnect from the power of my body, AND the pleasure of my sexuality! 

Which I think is a real shame because I believe this is the exact experience we most pertinently crave. 

We have such deep conditioning that feeling our sexuality is bad or dangerous, manipulative or harmful, but the truth is, feeling sexually alive is the most special kind of healing and transformative magic and medicine out there. 

Enjoy your Guided Practice for Feeling Like A Wild Sex Divaโ€ฆ

The practice I share in this week's video will support you in feeling sexy, alive and present in your body in any situation. 

Especially in situations which feel really high stakes. Like hot dates and connections with beautiful people, important career moments and getting on the bus! 

The new paradigm is to fully own humanity, which includes our sexuality. 

Because sexual empowerment IS the ultimate empowerment. 

It is time to untame yourself and unlock your inner wild woman. 

The historical world for feminine virility has been SLUT. 

Now we embody the power of our ovaries and let them literally birth new magical realms from our Vagina's. 

It starts with owning and enjoying feeling like a Wild Sex Diva and giggling your way through life. 

So give yourself ten minutes in your day to feel exquisite with your Guided Practice for Feeling Like A Wild Sex Diva.

Let your Pussy be your pendulum. And unleash your magnetic magic on the world. 

Truly, YOU are a gift to everyone you meet. 

Sending you infinite love and Pussy rays through time and space,

To the cosmos and beyond,

Keeley ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’– xxxxxx

Sexual Empowerment for Men 101

If there is one thing that has become apparent to me since my TEDx talk went live and shot to over 300,000 views in just ten days it is this:

The Sexual Revolution is for EVERYONE.

It requires everyone.

And MEN especially do not want to be left out of the conversation.

So today I am responding to the many requests for the recognition, acknowledgement and love for men that I have received of late.

Sexual empowerment is deserved by everyone everywhere. And men need just as much love, support and compassion as anyone else.

We all desire to thrive. And the tools to thrive are finally here and being made available on mass scale to anyone who wants to access them.

Watch my new video Sexual Empowerment for Men and get access to those tools for yourself:

Maybe in my life time we will see the school system actually teach the skills required for healthy adulting, or maybe weโ€™ll take matters into our own hands - quite literally, and acquire them for ourselves.

That is after all what revolutions are all about, taking autocratic and plutocratic power and placing it in the hands of each individual sovereign being.

The Sexual Revolution for men is here. It is a revolution in ordinary human thought and behaviour, and most importantly, it is a revolution towards greater love.

The 4 Foundational Components of Sexual Empowerment for Men that I share in this weekโ€™s video are the beginning of a global change in regular male sexuality.

Taking it to new heights of beauty, divinity and profound embodied ecstasy. 

So watch the video now and get in on the good times ahead!

Into the stratosphere together we go,

With love and magic,

Keeley Olivia


How To Feel Worthy Of Male Attention

Today we're talking about an experience I think every human can relate to...

...the encounter of meeting a hot human being.


You know, the kind of juicy encounter which reminds you what it was like to be 15 years old again. 

And feel full of sexy aliveness and magic and possibility. 

What a phenomenal gift to receive as we walk through life. The blessing of a sexy human. 

Wouldn't life be great if we were all just slinking though life full of sexy radiance, instead of traffic, and bosses, and deadlines, and drunk people pissing on building walls in broad daylight - or is that just Glasgow?

(I mean the sheer audacity of that guy was quite inspiring to me but there was a couple of women in front of me who were horrified! I digress...)

SO yeah, feeling sexy. What a wonderful thing - why does it feel so fleeting, and... like it always has to come via someone else?

If you're anything like me you want to basque in that feeling of turn on and Pussy magic long after the train ride ends, and you actually want to feel worthy of it. 

For so long I felt so awkward in such encounters because well, I guess I just didn't feel worthy of beautiful sexual attention. Or I was scared of it. Or - on some level - I didn't believe that another human being could actually be attracted to me. 

Which seems so bizarre when I say it out loud now. Cos like, why would they not be? We are ALL so Goddamn SEXY!

We can all tap into that power and quality of feeling sexy whenever we want because it lives inside of us!

Want to know a secret? - Your sexy embodied power actually lives in your Pussy.

And when you are turned on and tuned into Her your unique essence can't help but sparkle and activate the world around. 

It's fun and beautiful and sensual and luscious!

All you have to do is tap into your Pussy magic and you can slink around town feeling like a hot Goddess whenever you want.

You deserve to feel worthy and receptive of all the magic that brings. 

Your energy and presence is a gift exactly as you are right now. Feel that truth emanate from you and let your life get sexier than you ever knew possible. 

It sparks our creativity AND it feels great!

In today's video I share 3 practices that can help you as a woman overcome any unworthiness, awkwardness and negative self talk that you might feel around receiving attention for your beauty and radiance. 

It is my observation that most women have a distorted negative view around their true essence and beauty and really don't see how magnificent they are!

They look to the external world for validation of their beauty, and it's time to turn that on it's head and feel your power from within. 

Let these 3 Pussy activation practices turn you on to life:

Watch "How to Feel Worthy of Male Attention" nowโ€ฆ

(and even if you're not a hetero woman you will still find these practices really powerful since they are essentially turning you onto your own beauty and radiance so you can be a magnet for whom or whatever you want to attract in your life!)

You deserve it, and since Christmas is nearly upon us, let your hair loose and feel the sparkle and magic that is you!

Next week I'll be in New York on a Pussy Pilgrimage in the name of sexual aliveness and radiant self expression! Can't wait to tell you all about that! 

For now, enjoy yourself and watch,

You are the revolution.

Keeley ๐Ÿ˜ปโœจ

3 Unexpected Powers of Cervical Orgasms ๐Ÿ’ฅ

In this week's video I'm sharing with you the 3 Unexpected Powers that CERVICAL ORGASMS will gift you!

Oh my days. Cervical O's are my absolute fav topic. Fav of all time. 

There is nothing quite like birthing a new galaxy from your Vagina (aka having a Cervical O) to wake you up on a Monday morn and get your cockles warmed!

In fact, I truly believe that if every woman the globe over started her Mondays with a Cervical Orgasm first thing we would live in a very different world! 

One more akin to the magic of Harry Potter but when Voldy isn't at large. Although of course he is right now in the world (hello Donald).

A woman's cervical O is her ultimate PATRONUS! It's time to beat those wintery blues and get yourself a wildly orgasmic pulsating vibrating juicy Vagina and unlock those super powers within. 

You can find out all about doing that right here...

I didn't even know what a Cervical Orgasm was a few years ago and since discovering my own it has become my mission to awaken the cervixes of women around the globe...

Why? Well that's exactly what I share in the video, but let me put it this way...

If I'd have spent the decade between 14 and 24 having cervical orgasms and loving my body instead of getting wrecked and having diabolical relationships and dire sexual experiences I would have had a very different life - one where I cried much fewer tears of sadness and many more of joy!

This is what I now imagine for other women and future generations. 

So join me in the Pussy Revolution and come find out the 3 Unexpected Powers of Your Cervical Orgasm! 

To your never ending orgasmic bliss,

Keeley Olivia ๐Ÿ˜ป

How To Masturbate Without A Vibrator

Did you know that Sainsbury's recently launched a range of Sex Toys after one of their survey's suggested that "one in three Brits was not satisfied between the sheets".

10 years ago when I was a student this would have shot good ole Saino's right up there in my well respected stores internal checklist.

But now, I just find it a little disappointing.


Well a number of reasons - the first is assuming that what is needed to fix British sex lives is the electromechanical medical device that was invented in the 1880's to cure women of hysteria - the illness of having a womb!

It's not the solution - we need a whole paradigm change in thinking and behaviour around sexuality - not perpetuating more of the old quick tense vibrator induced clitoral orgasm that is over before it's even begun and depletes the body of sexual energy.  

My sigh of disappointment is because the 'range of Sex Toys' consists of three cheaply made vibrators. Which yes have their time and place and no I don't expect Saino's to launch an Artisan Sex Toy range - stay tuned at KO HQ for that ;) - but it does reflect the liminal narrow perspective of what human sexuality is about that exists in the mainstream. The launch isn't about helping Brits out in the bedroom... it's about commercialisation and consumerism and filling a gap in the market that doesn't really deeply solve the issue at hand. 

It's annoying especially since it's considered radical.

But it isn't... profound PUSSY LOVE is RADICAL my friend. 

(Note: this isn't about Sainsbury's - just using them as an example of standard disconnected sexual thought that prevails).

Clitorises are the most phenomenal organs in existence and I can assure you that they do not require a voltage across them to whack them into action. 

Yet that is not what most of the world believes. 

And it is not what many of us experience either - hence me being in a job! 

Female masturbation or female sexuality has become synonymous with VIBRATORS,

And yes they can be fabulous and I for one have had many an orgasm at the hand of one,


They also miss out so much of what authentic raw female sexuality is about. 

Stuff I had no clue of until I stopped using a vibrator and masturbated consistently for a year without one! 

The sexuality I discovered was soulful and deep, erotic, full bodied, surrendered, rippling, rolling, soft, sensual and endless. 

I want every woman to know the truth and magic of her body and it's vast beauty and capabilities. 

It is my vision to teach women all over the world how to connect to and love their bodies through holistic masturbation - this is what my Self Pleasure School does - and I also intend to offer this to teenage girls too. 

First we start with true loving connection so that the body's natural vibrant sexuality can express, then once we have mastered that, of course we can experiment with toys and sensations and sexy fun. 

But when we go for the vibrator first we run the risk of desensitisation, disconnection and disempowerment in the long term. 

I celebrate your vibrators big and small, and I invite you to explore with me a different way to masturbate today...

I share 3 strategies you've never heard before to let go of your vibrator and unlock a different flavour of your unique sexual expression.

Sexual expression is key to full self expression which is key to knowing who we really are in this life. 

Your Pussy is magical and she has so many gifts to give if you just put down the drill for a moment and let her speak - her language may be soft and subtle at first, but it will be oh so powerful. 

You are magnificent, and your Vagina is full of blessings.

Wishing you the most phenomenal week ahead,

So watch "How To Masturbate Without A Vibrator" now and join me in the front lines of The Pussy Revolution.

Epic love and Pussy wisdom to you,

Keeley Olivia O

๐ŸฆŠ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’™ xxx

The Masturbation Revolution

We are living in remarkably revolutionary times.

And to be here with me now reading this, that means that YOU are THE leading edge.

Have no doubt, we are on the precipice of great change amongst human thought and behaviour with regards to the body and sexuality. 

To be here with you at this time is remarkable, and one of the greatest honours of my life. 

No joke. 

I fucking love my life and the work I do so much. 

I would do it if the only way to share the message was to stand in city centre's preaching,

and I would do it if all it meant I ate my whole life was lentil stew - like they did in The Young Ones. 

This week I am announcing the arrival of THE MASTURBATION REVOLUTION  to the entire world, and I do hope you will join me in the jubilations...


On Thursday of this week - 1st November 2018 - the doors to the world's first MASTURBATION SCHOOL will open as my Self-Pleasure School opens to the public.

It is a pioneering disruption to the ordinary exhibit of human relationship to self.

This is fundamental, and actual REAL profound and life-changing SELF-LOVE at its core. 

Self-Pleasure School is THE global initiative that will close all of the gender gaps that ever existed and create a world of more joyful orgasmic creatively expressed and soulful happy humans. 

Fuck yes to all of that. 

I'll be back in your in box later this week with more info about Self-Pleasure School (aka MASTURBATION SCHOOL FOR THE MODERN DAY PUSSY WITCH).

But for now, join me in bringing in the new times with this week's video. 

It is my favourite yet...


Together we are wild fire,

I salute you, from my Vagina to yours, in deepest reverence and raucous profanity.

You are a fucking living legend,

See you very very soon,

With Love from,

(of the Olivia Pussy Queen clan). 



My STD experience...

If you'd've told me 10 years ago when I was sat in a sexual health clinic getting cryotherapy on my cervix that one day I would be proclaiming this to the world I probably would have passed out in mortification. 

Alas, a lot has changed in that decade. 

And now, the fact I had an STD bothers me less than my random beard hairs. Yes I get those. 

I'm not here to glamorise STD's or encourage you to rush out and get one at your first available opportunity...

Nor do I want to trivialise the real pain and suffering that they, and any ill health, can bring. 

However, I do know that I wasted far too may years being completely disconnected from my Vagina because of my STD experience.

And quite frankly, those are years I will never be getting back.

Years I lost to shame and humiliation, that I never needed take on in the first place. 

In all truth, my Vagina and I were perfectly OK, we were more than that, we were magical, but because I was scared of what was going on down there, and didn't have the support to navigate the emotional impact of having an STD, I never quite fully tapped into her powers!

Thankfully, I stopped being afraid of my Vagina and got over my STD...

And now I'm here to tell that tale to you!

And in so doing, lighten the stigmatic load around STD's and give hope of emotional freedom around our sexual health. 

Watch below this week's video: "My STD experience..."

People have often reflected "courage" or "bravery" to me in sharing such a story, and I always take issue with such terms. 

Since, for there to be courage or bravery there must also be fear, but what is there to be afraid of?

We are just humans living our real human lives, why do we need to be so frightened of who and what we are?

Yes one time I got some warts on my Vag, and then I did loads of other things too. And it helped me grow up and take some self responsibility and it also taught me about cultivating unwavering self-love and self-respect and commitment to myself as well. 

It turned out, in the grand history of my life, to be a positive experience for which I am grateful. 

Just like that time I dug organic potatoes out of a field in Prague. 

Why should either one story have more shame than the other?

Today I choose to un-filter my human experience and stand outside of accepted cultural norms in the aid of love, unity, connection and healing. 

Will you join me?

Watch this week's video now!

Let's ramp up the revolution of no stigma, freedom of expression and soulful self-compassion. 

I love my Vagina, and I know that she loves me. 

See you next week ๐Ÿ˜‰,

Lots of magical Vag love,

Keeley Olivia


let's talk about... SLEEP ORGASMS!

In this week's video...

We're opening the conversation about sleep orgasms! 

What are they, why do we have them and whan can they tell us about human sexuality!

I became fascinated with them when I started to have them!

OMG those are the BEST nights sleep!!


Have you ever had a sleep orgasm?

It turns out... wet dreams exist for women as well! 

Watch the video to find out more!

I'd love to hear your own personal stories so please share them below!

(note: this discussion isn't just for people who've had sleep orgasms - its for everyone, including those interested in having one and those who are just happy to learn about our phenomenal human body!)

Like usual I mix through some fascinating research to make the discussion all the more interesting...

Turns out that up to a third of women have had sleep orgasms!

And that yes, orgasm IS an altered state of consciousness which activates the entire brain - unlike any other human activity!

Lots of love, 

Keeley Olivia

P.S. I'm speaking on the TEDx stage this coming Saturday (13th October) - if you want to come along for a day of mind blowing talks there is still a few tickets left - you can find out more here


My Pubic Hair Horror Stories #hometruthsfromthefrontlineoffemmedome

Do you remember getting your first pubes? What is was like - how you felt?

I was about 10 and in the bath in the house I grew up when I first noticed some little black hairs on my vulva. 

I was a bit mortified, grossed out and also intrigued. I was going to have a woman's body like my mamma! And that felt very exciting!

The road to getting a woman's body however was not going to be an easy ride as I was finding out a few years later. 

Quite frankly, it was going to be fucking traumatising!

In this week's video I share two personal stories about removing my pubic hair as a young woman. 

They are comical and, I hope, endearing and relatable. 

I believe they are the untold stories of many women around the world. 

These are the stories of ordinary female bodies and sexuality. 

It is not all glamour and perfection. 

Yes we are a brilliantly hilarious sex with much more tenacity than the beauty and porn industry would have us believe. 

So if you want a good old chuckle and to reminisce in humour about your teenage years, come join me in today's video made especially for YOU:

Lets inject our real histories into the social narrative and clear the path for future generations of women to be more at peace with who and what they are. 

My vagina is magical. 

And she's a comedy genius too...๐Ÿ˜‰

Watch now^^

And let your Monday be transformed with giggles and joy. 

With love,

Keeley Olivia

Sex and Relationship Expert
Author of Unleashing the Female O
TEDx Speaker
Pussy Revolutionaire

Feminism & Sexuality - Dirty Words or Portals to Empowerment?

When a blatant "feminist" explicitly proclaimed she was definitely not one to me some years ago I was bemused and baffled. 

Why? Why did she feel this need to distance herself so vehemently from this word?

And when I mention Pussies and FEAMLE ORGASMS do most of the population squirm and gasp in horror?

In this week's video I dissect Feminism & Sexuality and investigate whether these are just dirty controversial terms, or if in fact they can be portals to your deepest empowerment...

Watch now!

What are some messages you have received around Feminism & Sexuality?

And on a deeper level - what do the words mean to you?

Share in the comments below! Let's get the conversation started...

Watch the video now!

With love,

Keeley Olivia ๐ŸงกโœŒ๐Ÿป

A Heart Connecting Practice for Couples

When we are babies we instinctively reach out with our arms from our heart.ย 

We know that love is integral to survival.ย 

Love is also integral to thriving.ย 

When our attempts to connect from our heart is rejected or met with deprivation or punishment, we form both physical and emotional defenses to cope.ย 

In our emotional body, we experience fear, anger, sadness, despair. These emotions stay within the muscles of the body and form chronic tension, pain, and rigidity when we are blocked from fully expressing them in a healthy and safe way.ย 

In the ego (personality), we develop mechanisms for keeping the heart closed, hidden and protected which might look like mistrust, denial, skepticism, rejection-of-self, and projection of our lost parts onto others. (i.e. struggling in relationship)...

A closed heart manifests in our lives as drama, addictions to food/ alcohol/ drugs/ and relationships with other people who aren't good for us.ย 

Turning on the news or going on facebook these days can all feel a bit like we are spiraling at galactic speed towards Armageddon.ย 

The truth is, we all have the capacity to change the world in an instance right there inside of us.

It's not the politicians or corporations, super-rich or celebrities that will alter the direction of humanity, it is us.ย 

The people, the individuals, the collective. It is each person making choices in the direction of their thriving in their everyday life that changes the world.ย 

So my message for you today is to choose love.ย 

Let the defenses drop; be willing to feel vulnerable, open, seen, known in all of who you are.ย 

See others for the magnificence that shines within rather than the judgmentsย erected to keep them out.ย 

It is easy to self-exclude and think you're different from everyone else. Loads of people say they "never fitted in". But what if now that is just your personality structure trying to keep you safe from truly deeply connecting - a feat which requires the most courage of all.

What if behind every shelled heart was a depth and compassion so huge that it could heal your past hurts with one flicker.ย 

I believe this is the true state of humanity.ย 

This week's video shares a beautiful practice with you for melting the defenses of your heart and softening into more love, intimacy, connection and expansion.ย 

Love really is all we need.ย 

Watch this week's video now below "A Heart Connecting Practice for Couples".

(you can also do this practice with yourself or with a friend if you are currently single)

Love heals everything.

So this week go forth and have the audacity and courage to love and be loved.

Watch now:ย "A Heart Connecting Practice for Couples".

All my love,

Keeley Oliviaย ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’

Your Magical Orgasmic Vulva

It is estimated that between 10-40% of women struggle with or are unable to reach orgasm. 

For most women, the most known and experienced type of orgasm is the clitoral orgasm.

The clitoris is a phenomenal structure up to 5 inches in length and 3 inches in diameter that spans behind the labia and protrudes back into the body as well - it's not just that tiny little bean that sticks out - that's the clitoris glans, and is just the tip of the iceberg.

Clitoral orgasms can be achieved super quick - in minutes or even seconds - research showed that the average time to orgasm in both men and women was 4 minutes.

The discrepancy between genders seems to me to be in the disconnect and inexperience we have in deeply knowing and freely loving our bodies as women.

Which leads to our bodies being owned by a culture which say we should look or behave a certain way, 

And our pleasure and orgasm becoming mythical, taboo and not of value.

The vulva is an essential and integral part of the female sexual anatomy - yet is has been forgotten and ignored, and worse - shunned, cut and shamed beyond imagination. 

In this week's video, I share with you some fascinating facts and home truths about your vulva - which is of course, home to your fabulous wonderful clitoris - the epicenter of female orgasmic pleasure. 

Watch now "Your Magical Orgasmic Vulva" and let yourself be transported to a world of acceptance, love and celebration for your exquisite female anatomy. 

The re-love-ution is here.

There is no more important work in the world to do right now other than diligently and relentlessly claim your sovereign power by irrefutable radical self-love.

Love starts within. And from there, it transforms the entire world. 

Go love your vulva and discover her magic and majesty today: watch now "Your Magical Orgasmic Vulva".

Until next week, 

All my love and vulva hugs,

Keeley ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’›โœŒ๐Ÿป

The Heroine's Journey of Sexual Awakening

Every woman has to become the Heroine of her own life.

Otherwise, she ends up bitter, lost, lonely, ill or depressed. 

There is nothing more painful than the regret and loathing inspired by self-betrayal.

It takes great courage to become who you truly are; it often involves going against the grain and risking the rejection of those you most love. 

And yet, the boon is always worth it. 

What do we live for if not adventure and the consistent pursuit of self-realisation?

In this week's video I map for your how the Heroine's Journey reflects directly the pathway of Feminine Sexual Awakening, and in seeing this you are cascaded into the knowing that Sexuality work as a woman is fundamental and essential to your ultimate becoming. 

Watch it now: "The Heroine's Journey of Sexual Awakening."

Do you remember the bit in Wonder Woman where Diana arrives to London and she is just there, in her WW gear, stoting around being all badass and wanting to save the world and not understanding why everyone is so shut down and sad and... clothed?

And Steve is all like - 'Diana put this coat on and don't speak to people and stop saying you're going to kill Aries who is causing the war to random humans who just don't get it'. 

Well, Diana represents the true Heroine in all of us - the woman who is unashamed of her body and her beauty, her magic and her power - who knows exactly what her mission is even when the rest of the world denies and ridicules her. 

Wonder Woman became the highest grossing superhero origin film of all time because it taps into a universal story that speaks to all of our souls, and that culturally is becoming safe to tell now too - it is the story of the Heroine's Journey. 

Dianna is not a sexually ashamed woman - she is powerful and vibrant and lets her gifts flow through her beautiful body. 

Now it is time to embark upon your Heroine's Journey too - and reclaim your innate feminine sexuality - which is an integral, and advanced phase of the Heroine's Journey's spiral back towards self.

Let this week's video support you in doing just that: "The Heroine's Journey of Sexual Awakening" - watch above.

It is time to let your unique superpowers unlock and ignite the fire of your life,

Until next week, 

Feel the magic and mystery of your path awaken, 

With Love,
Keeley ๐Ÿ’˜

5 Reasons Why You Need a Regular Self-Pleasure Practice

Back in April I received an email in my inbox from a co-organiser of a TEDx event telling me that she had put my name forward to be a curated speaker at her event. 

The night before this happened I wrote down in my journal that "I am a speaker to a 100,000 audience".

As I wrote that statement out it seemed not of me, it wasn't something I had ever considered before let alone wrote down on paper. I felt more terror at the idea than excitement, and even as I wrote it out it didn't feel like a desire that came from me, but more through me. A pre-determined destiny of mine that I was somehow connecting into. 

I have always found the grandiose nature of the personal development and coaching industry a bit gross. 

And unnecessary. 

Who am I to determine if 10 or 10 million people want to listen to what I have to say?

My only job is to follow the creative impulse that flows through me in every moment and trust where it has to take me.

It is that, I have learned, that takes most courage.

To be committed to you in every moment, residing in humility when that is what is needed, and speaking up when it's time to do that too. 

I once heard Sophie Turner say that what she's most learnt from playing Sansa Stark in Game of Thrones is that bravery and courage isn't always speaking up for yourself, it's just not backing down in the face of fear. 

PROFOUND or what?

Anyway, I don't know if my talk will ever get listened to by 1000 people, let alone 100,000, but I did know that morning when I woke to that TEDx email invitation that it was a clear pathway to a potential 'how' for the prophecy I had written the night before. 

I know for a fact that we live in a magical, abundant and awe-inspiring universe that is always supporting you to live as closely to your truth as possible, if only you have the audacity to follow the clues and not back down in the face of fear. 

Regular holistic self-pleasure (aka masturbation) has been key to me developing the courage to say yes to my life over and over again, and that is just one reason why taking up a self-pleasure practice will radically change your life!

Watch this week's video now to discover 5 more! 

I believe that we are on a brink of a female self-pleasure revolution...

That will topple the beauty industry and dissolve low-self worth and body hatred prevalent in women all of the world that huge corporations thrive on.

It is time to let your own revelations be born through you, taking back your own power, and living your own life full bore, with your success determined solely by you.

A regular self-pleasure practice is exactly the magic carpet that will transport you at full throttle towards your very own majestic destiny. 

Apparently, I'm on a mission to get at least 100,000 more Vagina's orgasming so it's high time you joined the revolution and clocked up some of those O's!

Watch above "5 Reasons Why You Need a Regular Self-Pleasure Practice".

Girl Power to you my sister!

With love,
Keeley Olivia O ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’›

3 Types of Orgasm for Women

In this week's video, I'm sharing with you three types of orgasm women can experience! 


It is my passion for women the world over to discover and explore their full orgasmic potential!

Click here to watch now: "Three types of orgasm for women".

Find out which type of orgasm is like:

A) a firework
B) a tectonic earthquake rumbling
C) birthing a new galaxy from your vagina

My very favourite subject!

Lots of love and orgasmic magic to you,


The Next Steps for your Sexual Awakening

A common reaction that women have to reading my ebook is...

And... what's NEXT???"

They want to know specifically 'how do I create those sexual experiences and results in my own body?'

And today's video answers just that!

It's the perfect video if you know you're ready for your sexual awakening and are dying to know "what's next?!?!?!?"!

Watch now: "The Next Steps for your Sexual Awakening".

It's not just me, or some Tantric sex-guru, who sexual awakenings are available for.

The truth is, that sexual aliveness and vibrancy is your natural wild human expressive state. 

Don't let your Pussy fall wayside to over-medicalisation or religious indoctrination. Claim the pleasures and treasures that you, dear friend, beholden. 

Your Vagina was epically made and came henceforth into being via another Vagina.

So it's time to celebrate your Vagina magic and say "Er... YES Please!" to YOUR sexual awakening. 

Right here, right now: "The Next Steps for your Sexual Awakening" (watch above!).

With love and a merriment of naked frollicks forever,

Keeley Olivia 

De-armouring: A Masturbation Technique for a Magical Vagina

If you hadn't noticed already, I am on a mission.

A mission to wake up the Pussies. 

A mission to wake the fuck up the magical pulsating living thriving unicorn birthing Vaginas of the planet. 

I've heard some say "the witches are back",

And I couldn't' agree more. 

If you want a Dragon breathing Pussy of Daenerys magnitude then you HAVE to watch this week's video right this very second. 

I made it for you.

Well, in truth, I made it for your Vagina. 

And I know she is purring with delight right now; I can hear her. 

Watch below:

Say goodbye to numbness, pain, tenderness, boredom, apathy, loneliness and heaviness. 

Say hello to a mighty magical fairy-nymph-woodland-sprite vagina of enchantment and mystery and pleasure galore. 

De-armouring is the masturbation technique that will get you back home, to the sexual thriving you deserve. 

Until next week, may you birth mythical creatures from your Vagina a plenty. 

With love,
Keeley Olivia ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿงก

The Secret To Great Sex

It's here!

The holy grail of life. The secret wisdom that will unlock all of your sexual potential and transport you to the realms of a magical orgasmic Vagina!

The secret is not what you expect, but it is the ultimate foundation, from which an expansive life-affirming sexuality can grow into something beautiful. 

Without knowledge of this secret, sex will always feel a little disappointing, unfulfilling, or even just plain boring and meh. 

And all of your pleasure and sexual aliveness will feel like it is fully dependent on someone (or something) else!

This is such a crying shame! 

The secret I share in this video will propel you towards the incredible majestic sexuality that you were born to feel. 

Watch now "The Secret to Great Sex" and discover what women of generations past never knew.

May you go forth this week and create ripple effects of happiness and connection in the world by unlocking a deeper portal to your sexual wisdom,

With love and Pussy rays of moonlight,

Keeley Olivia

3 Ways to Self-Soothe During Arguments

Arguments in long-term relationships are the worst when all we truly want is to feel loved, cherished and understood by our partners. 

There is little that compares to the pain we can feel when at war with our loved ones. 

Have you ever found yourself mid-argument wondering 1) why am i acting so crazy and 2) how can we ever get out of this mess?

...hope feels lost and the heaviness of the argument seems impossible to navigate!

This is exactly where Bobby and I found ourselves last week after a major move and traumatic health scare! 

We were both running on stress cycles in our nervous systems (constant fight, flight or flee) and the result was that our scared inner children were out in full force attempting to run our adult relationship!

Which, if you hadn't guessed, is not the most ideal place for them to be!

The truth is, I think that the majority of people find themselves in similar dilemmas at some point in our relationships - stuck, challenged, hurt, scared, confused - yet oftentimes we feel like we are the only ones who struggle, and make it mean that there is something fundamentally wrong with us or the relationship.

That may be the case if the foundation of the relationship is built on dysfunction or abuse, but if it's built on love and genuine care for one another, it might be that you just need some skills and know-how on how to sail through the storm. 

In this video, I share with you 3 practices that you can use to break patterns of dysfunctional communicating by taking care of your own needs and soothing your nervous system when it is triggered. 

This allows you to show up from a healthy place in your relationship and communicate your truth effectively. 

Watch the video now... 

When all we need is a little love, giving it to ourselves first and foremost can be the most healing antidote to pain.

I have found the three techniques I share in this week's video to be core essential components to me being able to engage fully in an emotionally healthy and mature thriving partnership. 

Sadly, very few of us ever see what an emotionally and sexually healthy model of relationship looks like and so instead of thriving in relationships, we perpetuate the patterns of dysfunction that are inherent in so much of our cultures relating and find ourselves struggling instead. 

That doesn't need to be the case. 

Go find out how to support yourself to be in a beautful and loving relationship today...

By watching the video above!

It is our small interactions with the people close to us that weaves the fabric of our planet, make sure these count and are laced with love for yourself and others. 

I'm sending you infinite oodles of kindness and compassion for you and your wounded inner child.

She/he is magical and deserves to feel so. It's time to parent yourself in a way that is infused with divinity and ultimate loving truth. 

Wishing you access to all the magic and healing that your relationships have to offer, healthy functioning is key.

With love,
Keeley Olivia